Online dating after 50 is no joke. On a recent date, a man told me I didn’t meet the “physicalities of his preference”—even after seeing my photos, Instagram, and FaceTime. His words stung, but they revealed more about him than me. Preferences are fine, but weaponizing them is narcissism. The lesson? Never let careless comments shrink your worth. Dating is about discernment, self-love, and remembering you are always enough.